Partner A: strongest areas
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Relationship coaching resource
Relationship Health Assessment
Explore your relationship's strengths, identify areas that may need attention and compare how each partner experiences the relationship.
This assessment is intended to encourage thoughtful conversation, not to diagnose your relationship or decide who is right. Different scores can reveal different experiences, expectations and needs.
Before you begin
There are no perfect relationships and no perfect scores.
The assessment explores communication, boundaries, consent, trust, honesty, independence, equality, support, responsibility, conflict, safety, playfulness and intimacy.
A lower score does not automatically mean that a relationship is failing. It may indicate an area that has received less attention, changed over time or is experienced differently by each partner.
Higher scores can help identify the existing strengths that may support change elsewhere.
Interactive assessment
Answer each statement from 1 to 5.
Section totals, interpretations, overall scores and partner differences update automatically.
Answered A:
0/0
Answered B:
0/0
Overall A:
0 / 325
Overall B:
0 / 325
Difference:
0
Partner A progress
0%
Partner B progress
0%
How category scores are interpreted
21–25: Very Strong
16–20: Generally Healthy
11–15: Needs Attention
6–10: Areas of Concern
1–5: Serious Difficulty
Your relationship profile
Review the pattern, not only the overall number.
The strongest categories show resources already present in the relationship. Lower categories and larger differences may suggest useful starting points for conversation or coaching.
Partner A: growth opportunities
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Partner B: strongest areas
Switch on two-person mode and complete Partner B's answers.
Partner B: growth opportunities
Switch on two-person mode and complete Partner B's answers.
Compare Partner A and Partner B
The largest score differences may show areas in which each partner experiences the relationship differently.
Switch on two-person mode and complete both sets of answers to
compare your scores.
Three priorities to discuss
Complete both sets of answers to generate suggested discussion
priorities.
Reflection together
Use the scores to start a better conversation.
Relationship coaching
Understanding the pattern is the first step. Changing it is the next.
Relationship coaching can help you slow difficult patterns down, improve communication and create practical changes around conflict, trust, intimacy and connection.